By David Cooley.
I have read many religious resources that state that there is a crisis of faith among Catholic young people. I don’t doubt that at all. Recent studies estimate that only 20 percent of young Catholics are practicing their faith by the age of 22. But I wonder, is there not also a crisis of faith among older generations? I, personally, don’t think the spiritual struggle has an age bias. I think it’s fair to say that young Catholics aren’t going to see their faith lives as important if their parents and relatives don’t see their faith lives as important, at least while they are still in their formative years.
You have to give children and young adults a little credit, they can tell if you really believe or not. They can see how important going to Mass is to you and how much time you spend praying. If you spend most of your time on a cell phone or watching Netflix, that’s probably how they are going to spend most of their time, too. But, we must ask ourselves, is our Catholic faith important enough to spend time on; to sacrifice for? We simply can’t escape the fact that if we are going to pass down the faith we have to know and understand it ourselves. Moreover, we can’t truly understand our faith unless we have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. The failure to center our lives on Christ has serious consequences, especially for young people who look up to us for answers.
There is a lot of pressure growing up in today’s world. Youth have to deal with a lot of things that we didn’t have to deal with growing up (social media for example!), and if we do not meet our children where they are they will be bombarded by a culture and a way of life that leads them to nothing but emptiness and sadness.
Three different secular news articles recently caused me to pause and reflect on that fact. The first was from USA Today and was titled “‘Deaths of despair’ from drugs, alcohol and suicide hit young adults hardest.” It reported that drug-related deaths, alcohol deaths and suicides among millennials — a generation typically defined as those born between 1981 and 1996 — soared 108 percent, 69 percent and 35 percent respectively. An analysis of the data from the Center for Disease Control and Prevention found that the increase for these three “deaths of despair” for people who are 23 to 38 years old were higher than for baby boomers and senior citizens. The article went on to site possible reasons for this, including burdensome levels of debt, difficulty in starting careers and the opioid crisis. Since many millennials have families of their own, these addiction struggles and overall poor mental health conditions could have a serious impact on multiple generations for years to come.
The second article from Daily Mail was titled “Loneliest generation: A quarter of millennials say they have no friends.” The article described an unprecedented sense of loneliness among young adults despite the ability to call, text, e-mail, snap, tweet, post and live stream one another from anywhere on the planet. According to the article there is a vicious cycle involved — isolation takes a toll on mental health, which in turn makes people withdraw and then they become more isolated and depressed. I don’t think it is a far stretch to assume that this sense of isolation is also part of the blame for the surging rates in deaths of despair.
The third and final article was titled “From binge drinking to blacking out, the disturbing epidemic putting America’s kids in danger,” which was featured in CBS News. In short, this article stated that there is a silent pandemic having to do with “the pervasive and problematic drinking culture among American youth.” Binge drinking has not only been normalized but it is also a “marker of social status.” In other words there is a lot of pressure to drink enormous amounts of alcohol at once because “all the cool kids are doing it.” Almost 2,000 college-aged youth are dying every year on college campuses, and it doesn’t seem like this tragedy gets the attention that it deserves.
Millennials and Gen Z seem to be the most stressed out, isolated and depressed generations in recent memory, despite what some might argue, thanks to technological advances, is an easy life. So, what are we missing here? Experts say that millions of young people are turning to drugs and alcohol to numb themselves and escape their stress, and on top of all that we are in the midst of some kind of loneliness epidemic. So much for the carefree days of youth! Isn’t there something else they can turn to? Can’t some of us, who have already learned some truths the hard way, guide our youth toward something better?
People are desperately looking for something to fill a void in their lives. As Catholics we know, as St. Augustine said, that our hearts our restless until they rest in the Lord; however, our society and our culture often remove God from the equation completely or at the very least put him on the back burner as an afterthought. The Church has a wonderful opportunity to once again rise to the occasion to remind a darkened world about the Way, the Truth and the Life. No matter where you are, you are in mission territory. If we don’t do our best to help our youth and our peers understand that life has a purpose and that each one of us is an irreplaceable human being that is loved and made in the image and likeness of God, the consequences will continue to be devastating. Of course we have to first believe all of this ourselves. We must focus on the joy of the Gospel, the goodness and beauty in our world; because, whether you believe it or not, there is so much to live for, to hope for and to share with each other.
David Cooley is co-director and office manager of the Department of Catechesis and Faith Formation in the Diocese of Covington.
Monica Yeamans, Editorial assistant.
Angie Brinkman, director of Thomas More University’s Institute for Learning Differences, will facilitate a presentation for parents, educators and other professionals working with students with learning differences such as ADHD, autism or other specific learning disabilities. The presentation will highlight the important differences between support services at the high school level compared to the college level.
The presentation will be held Nov. 20 beginning at 6:30 p.m. in the Science Lecture Hall at Thomas More University.
The discussion will include changes in educational laws and regulations, the many challenges faced by students with learning disabilities in college and some best practices in supporting those students during their transition to college.
The presentation will “help families understand they can still get support at the college level but it’s quite different from what they receive in high school,” said Ms. Brinkman. “Understanding the process and understanding the law that governs the process and what they can expect at the college level are some things we try to communicate to families and to prepare them for that change.”
Ms. Brinkman said that every school has a department that helps students who have a documented learning difference find reasonable accommodations with classes. At TMU the Office of Student Accessibility is charged with that task.
“But not every school has a department like TMU’s Institute for Learning Differences. Our program offers fee-based services like tutoring, one-on-one, specialized tutoring for students with learning differences,” she said.
“We also help with things that we call executive functioning skills like how to organize and prioritize all the different tasks that come with each class; all the different deadlines that come with each class; how to set goals; how to adjust to the different type of schedule that students have on the college level. How at college students have to adjust to the fact that most of the learning takes place outside the classroom with independent learning and studying on their own. We can help them manage that, understand that and adjust to it. We help support them through that transition.”
The event is free to the public but RSVP is requested by calling 344-3582 or e-mail [email protected]
Monica Yeamans, Editorial assistant.
This past summer Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Northern Kentucky began a new venture to help those in need help themselves out of poverty — the new “Microloan Program – a new path out of poverty.” This new program has been successful through local SVdP chapters in other U.S. cities such as Columbus, Ohio; Lancaster, Penn.; Dallas, Texas; and Arlington, Virginia.
In partnership with Kemba Credit Union, Florence and the Butler Foundation of Northern Kentucky, SVdP Northern Kentucky can offer clients an alternative to high interest loans while also providing clients an opportunity to learn about personal finances through financial mentoring.
SVdP NKY’s low-interest loan is fully guaranteed by SVdP NKY through its microloan program. Clients are referred by a Vincentian volunteer. Loans can be used to retire an existing loan, or for help with car, medical, educational or home repair expenses.
SVdP Northern Kentucky said that its hope for the program is to empower a person who has struggled financially and affect systemic change in the NKY community.
Deacon Mike Lyman, chair of SVdP Northern Kentucky’s Microloan Committee (a committee of seven community members) said, “These loans have provided the opportunity to address immediate needs such as car repairs and retiring predatory loans. The program does more than that, though. For our neighbors, they offer the opportunity to grow in confidence and financial skills. For our Vincentians, they are blessed with the opportunity to enter into extended relationships with our neighbors, which allows them to influence lives in a substantial way. The money made available is helpful, but the hope generated and the mentoring support provided are the true riches of this program.”
Karen Zengel, executive director, SVdP Northern Kentucky, is an ex-officio member of the Microloan Program Committee and reports that to date SVdP Northern Kentucky has made four microloans available to clients.
“Clients have the chance to get a loan to cover other expenses that might otherwise threaten their ongoing financial stability,” Mrs. Zengel said.
The committee convenes every time someone applies for a loan. Deacon Lyman has set up a variety of trainings for the financial mentors, which is another important component of this program.
Mrs. Zengel said, “While the loan itself is a really good opportunity for someone who may not otherwise have a chance to take out a loan, the other really important component of this program is the mentoring piece. That is important on two different levels: it is important to the individual who is a borrower that we work with them to help them achieve their own personal financial goals. They may not have had any instruction or guidance on how to start a savings account or even how to open a bank account. We’re helping the borrowers build a financial skill set. The other thing is, on the part of the Vincentians, it gives them an opportunity to work with a person who really needs a commitment, to make a significant change in their lives. So it is a different kind of experience than when they have the opportunity to do home visits. It is very motivating working with a person when you know they are taking steps to improve their lives. It can be very fulfilling for our Vincentians to have those chances to work with families who make a commitment.”
<<For information visit the St. Vincent de Paul of Northern Kentucky website www.SVDPky.org.>>
Laura Keener, Editor.
Thomas More University has announced a new initiative aimed at making a TMU education more financially attainable for local students — “The Diocese of Covington Guarantee.” With the Diocese of Covington Guarantee, TMU is affirming its commitment to students from the Diocese of Covington by guaranteeing $20,000 in institutional aid to students who choose TMU.
“In my inauguration speech, I spoke of the importance of providing every student in the Diocese of Covington with a high-quality, affordable Catholic education,” said Joseph Chillo, president, TMU. “The Diocese of Covington Guarantee ensures that all diocesan graduates starting with this year’s high school graduating seniors who meet our admission criteria will be awarded $20,000 in institutional aid.”
The Diocese of Covington Guarantee is not a stand-alone scholarship, said Rebecca Stratton, director of communications, TMU. It is designed to help bridge the gap so that each graduate of a Catholic high school in the diocese receives $20,000 of institutional aid.
Many families who have a student in a Catholic high school in the diocese are familiar with TMU’s Parochial Promise. The Parochial Promise is a $14,000 scholarship offered to any student who graduates from a Catholic high school nationwide and attends TMU. Diocesan high school students attending TMU will still qualify for the Parochial Promise. The Diocese of Covington Guarantee will be added to the Parochial Promise, and any other institutional aid, until the total institutional aid received reaches, but does not exceed, $20,000.
Non-institutional aid — like a student’s KEES money and federal or state grants — may be used in addition to the $20,000 from TMU.
“Our hope is that students from the diocese who qualify for full federal and state grants will have nearly no cost to attend Thomas More with this guarantee in place,” said Ms. Stratton.
All Diocese of Covington graduates who meet the minimum qualifications for admissions — 2.5 GPA and 20 ACT — starting with the graduating class of 2020 qualify for the guarantee. Another convenience for students is that there is not an additional form to complete to apply for the guarantee. A student’s admissions application acts as the application, said Ms. Stratton.
“Every diocesan student that wants to gain a Catholic higher education deserves the assistance to do so,” said President Chillo. “Creating opportunity for our diocesan high schools to effectively position the values and significance of a Catholic higher education begins with our responsibility of being the diocesan university. The values and purpose of Catholic education are significant and relevant and we must do our part to strengthen and advance the important work that was started almost 100 years ago at Villa Madonna College.”
For information visit the Thomas More University website www.university.thomasmore.edu.
Diocese of Covington